At times I come across the attempt to put fun into a box. “Fun is this and only this, and if you are not doing this, you are not having fun.” From my experience, one person’s fun might be another’s idea of at best, an event to just get through, to endure.

This image, which I pulled off of the internet, says it well to me, especially identifying as I do as an introvert.

A cartoon with one person inviting another out for the evening. On turning down the invitation saying that they wanted a quiet night in to watch a movie, the person who did the inviting advised the other that he must make sure that he has fun.